Alrighty then, there is a moderate comments function on blogger I knew nothing about.
If you have commented any time since Jan.1st you have been horribly ignored, as I have not seen it. I apologize!!!! It doesn't even tell you that you have a comment unless you leave your email address. I just happened to notice the key at the top as I am so putting off going to work for a bit and reconnecting with the blog world. Haven't had a "just be at home day" in months and months.